Let’s talk about the real world of finding the right person for you.
I was very lucky; I eventually bumped into a lady who is the sister of my
best friend. Aha! A female version with the same sense of humour and a similar personality. Subsequently we got together and we have four lovely children,
a happy family and a great relationship. Joy and I run and manage this web site
business. We are in this together as a couple – interested in other people finding
similar compatibility. No corporate line here, we believe in the personal touch
and service.
We have both been through several long term (and very short term!) relationships
in our lives, including failed marriages.
I ran my own business for ten years and became very interested in personality
profiling, mainly because of the unsuitable people I managed to employ.
Personality profiling and matching is but one facet of what it takes to make
a good relationship. There are other factors, not least being friends as well as
compatibility as lovers.
There are several dating sites on the Internet that offer personality profiling;
however, in our opinion most of these are overkill and will ask you a hundred questions.
Matching couples is more to do with a mix of factors rather than straight
psychology.
A compatible sense of humour is also a major factor in a happy relationship. This
can range from being a couple that laugh heartily non-stop through to
those of us who do not find many things funny in life.
The only pictures of “prospective partners” you will find on this site are
those that you will see from the matching at the end. Why? Because on most dating
sites they are just a teaser. “Our latest members”, “just joined today”. Physically
attractiveness is indeed a key component but on its own it guarantees nothing…except
failed dates and disappointment.
So to sum up then: what makes a perfect partner, in our opinion and experience?
It is a combination of compatible personalities, genuine friendship, physical attraction
and a common sense of humour.
We wish you all the best in finding your perfect partner.
Alan Hayward and Joy Rodden trading as Your Perfect Partner, situated in Swindon,
Wiltshire, United Kingdom. Address details
available on request.
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